Connection
Check-in
What do you actually want right now?
Not what's expected of you. What you actually want.
PEOPLE
You want to talk, be loud, be around energy
SPACE
You want to be left alone, fully
SOMEONE QUIET NEARBY
Not alone, not talking either
Check-in · Connection
A one-second check on what you actually need socially right now, instead of defaulting to whatever's easiest.
What this helps with
What do you actually want right now?
Who it's for
teens
About 1 minute
Inside
Not what's expected of you. What you actually want.
Keep going with Selfey
The complete Selfey Tools library is included with Selfey and Selfey+.
Selfey opens every tool. Selfey+ also picks out the ones that fit what your latest Check-In said.
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Reflection
A quieter way to think about your people — not who is in your network, but who you can actually be yourself around.
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Tell people what you actually need right now — not always easy to say out loud.
Reflection
Map out who you can go to for different things.