Connection
Menu
Point at the one you need. That's enough.
Show this to a grown-up, or just say the words.
HELP ME
I need you to do something
STAY WITH ME
I don't need to talk, just be near
GIVE ME A LITTLE SPACE
I need some time alone first
Menu · Connection
Help, Company or Space?
Tell people what you actually need right now — not always easy to say out loud.
- Time
- 1 minute
- Access
- Members
- For
- kids, caregivers
- A4 · US Letter · phone
What this helps with
Point at the one you need. That's enough.
Who it's for
kids, caregivers
About 1 minute
Inside
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