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The Mental Load Edit

The invisible list you carry for everyone. Get it out of your head, look at it honestly, and put some of it down.

5 modules · 45 min · Life · $49 one-time

What you'll come away with

  • See the full load written down, including the parts nobody names
  • Sort what's yours, what's shared and what can simply stop
  • Have the conversation without it becoming a fight

The modules

  1. Module 1

    8 min

    What the mental load actually is

    Noticing, deciding, remembering, anticipating — the work that leaves no trace.

  2. Module 2

    10 min

    The full inventory

    A guided dump of everything you're holding, including the seasonal and the emotional.

  3. Module 3

    9 min

    Sorting

    Keep, share, shrink, stop. A decision for each line rather than a feeling about all of it.

  4. Module 4

    9 min

    The handover

    Transferring ownership, not tasks — and surviving the period where it's done differently.

  5. Module 5

    9 min

    Holding the line

    What to do when it quietly comes back, because it will.